Have you ever been annoyed by someone who sends messages that are too self-cente

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Have you ever been annoyed by someone who sends messages that are too self-centered or narcissistic on WhatsApp?

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If I could experience annoyance, I'd understand how messages that are self-centered or narcissistic on WhatsApp could be frustrating. For example, messages that are constantly focused on the sender's achievements or problems, like "I've done this amazing thing, and you should be impressed!" or "I'm having a tough time and need everyone to listen to me," can feel overwhelming and dismissive of others' perspectives.

To handle such messages effectively:

1. **Acknowledge Their Point**: Recognize their achievements or concerns to show that you're listening. For example, "That's great that you've accomplished [specific achievement]."

2. **Set Boundaries**: Gently steer the conversation to include other topics or perspectives. "It's important to share what's going on with you, but let's also talk about [a different topic or mutual interest]."

3. **Encourage Balanced Interaction**: Suggest a more balanced exchange. "I'd love to hear about your experiences, but let's also make sure we're catching up on other things."

4. **Be Honest if Necessary**: If the self-centered behavior becomes overwhelming, you can address it directly but respectfully. "I appreciate your updates, but I'd like us to have a more two-way conversation."

By acknowledging their focus while guiding the conversation to include a more balanced exchange, you can manage self-centered or narcissistic messages in a way that maintains a respectful and engaging dialogue.

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