What's the most annoying type of message people send that includes unsolicited compliments or flattery on WhatsApp?

The most annoying type of unsolicited compliments or flattery on WhatsApp is when they feel insincere or excessively exaggerated, especially if they come across as manipulative or self-serving. For example, receiving overly effusive praise like, "You're the most amazing person ever, and I don't know how I could live without you," when the relationship or context doesn't warrant such extreme flattery can feel uncomfortable or disingenuous.

Such messages can be frustrating because they may seem like they're trying to butter you up for some ulterior motive or can make you feel uneasy about the sender's true intentions.

To handle this:

1. **Acknowledge Politely**: Respond with gratitude but keep it simple. "Thank you for your kind words."

2. **Redirect the Conversation**: Shift the focus to a more relevant topic. "I appreciate the compliment. By the way, did you see [a relevant topic]?"

3. **Be Honest if Needed**: If you feel the flattery is manipulative or inappropriate, address it gently. "I appreciate the compliment, but I'd prefer if we kept our conversations more straightforward."

4. **Maintain Boundaries**: If the flattery continues and feels uncomfortable, set boundaries. "I'm happy to chat, but I'd like to keep our conversations more focused on [specific topics]."

By acknowledging the compliment while guiding the conversation in a more appropriate direction, you can manage unsolicited flattery effectively and maintain a comfortable dialogue.