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What's the most annoying type of message people send that includes unsolicited opinions or advice on WhatsApp?

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The most annoying type of unsolicited opinions or advice on WhatsApp is when it comes across as presumptuous or intrusive, especially if it's delivered in a way that assumes you need or want their input without context. For example, messages like, "You should really change your approach to this," or "I can't believe you did that; you should have done it this way," can be frustrating, particularly if the advice is not requested or relevant.

Such messages can be irritating because they:

1. **Assume Knowledge**: They assume the sender knows what's best without understanding your full situation or context.
2. **Feel Overbearing**: They can come across as condescending or critical, especially if not delivered tactfully.
3. **Lack Sensitivity**: They might not consider whether you're in a position to receive or act on the advice.

To handle these messages:

1. **Acknowledge the Input**: If you want to be polite, acknowledge their input without committing to it. "Thanks for sharing your thoughts."

2. **Redirect the Conversation**: Gently steer the conversation to a different topic. "I appreciate your advice, but let's focus on [a different subject]."

3. **Set Boundaries**: If unsolicited advice is frequent, set boundaries politely. "I prefer to discuss my decisions and approaches with people who are directly involved or who I've asked for input."

4. **Provide Context**: If appropriate, give context to why their advice may not be applicable. "I see where you're coming from, but I'm handling this in a different way due to [specific reason]."

By managing unsolicited advice with clarity and respect, you can maintain control over the conversation while acknowledging the sender's input.

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